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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 17.06.2025 00:18

How does one succeed in life?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Why did McLaren hope that the Ferrari pair would pit twice during the Italian Grand Prix?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Is there an ideal number of sessions in individual psychotherapy? Is there any point in continuing after reaching it?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Why do liberals think it is okay to steal votes while the rest of us obey the law(s)?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

How does a man look at you when he is in love?

That's it for today.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

What caused North Korea to go poor when at first it was rich?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Trump says 'it's possible' US gets involved in Israel-Iran conflict - ABC News

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What I need from you?

I’ve often wondered why fans aren’t deployed on GBBO during warm weather? I’ve seen too many desserts melt (and bakers too…). (I live in Pompano Beach and we try to use fans in lieu of AC as much as possible).

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

What is your opinion on The Beatles' impact on modern popular music? Are there any other bands with similar impacts on their genre(s)? Why them and not others?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Why is social media so anti-fee speech, and have they become total BS?

Procrastinates a lot.

Making more friends is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

What might be the social consequences of an ethnic as opposed to a civic conception of the nation?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

How would you describe modern day Russian society, beyond just politics?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

What is the story of how you met your spouse?

Hangs out with loser friends.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Why am I not attracted to masculine men? Why do I like more feminine attributes on a man?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Ask yourself: